What I had done was bought her two tickets to a concert, and gave them to her for Christmas, and of coarse she felt obligated to choose me to go with (score for the pity date). So everything went according to my plan : )
Well the night of the concert arrived and being a good date, I made sure we had reservations at a place close to the concert so we could park the car, relax, and not have to worry about traffic getting to our concert (Downtown Baltimore during rush hour is NOT cool).
I picked somewhere that fit the genre of the music we were going to listen to, and in this case it was Country. Miranda Lambert / Dierks Bently / Thomas Rhett to be precise. So i chose a bar / restaurant / brewery type atmosphere. I settled on a place just down the street from our concert venue called Alewife. It checked out at Zagat with a cool 22 rating, nothing too extravagant, but definitely not a fast food joint.
The best part of this place was by far it's beer selection. It had over 40 beers on tap, but none of those 40 were mainstream beers, they were all 100% small-batch / local / microbrewery beers. For those of you who know me, I am a HUGE fan of specialty beers, so I was obviously in heaven at this point. I realized though that I had to keep my cool and not try them all, because if you didn't know, a drunk date is a HORRIBLE idea for a first date. So i limited myself to 3 beers. 1 Wurtzburger Festbier, 1 No-Li chocolate Dunkle, and 1 beer of the waitresses choosing.
Male Dating Pro Tip: Asking the waitress to choose her favorite beer is NOT flirting, it shows your outgoing side and that you're not afraid to try new things and be a bit adventurous.
Being that we both live in Maryland, which is known for their crab, and we have both never had crab cakes before, we ordered up some crab cakes. They were the perfect appetizer and sparked a bit of a link being both our first time trying something new. The main course was also fantastic, we both settled on their signature dish, which was the "smoke burger". Now I am a bit of a burger connoisseur, it is rare that I will go to a place that sells a gourmet burger and not order it. I thought this was an excellently crafted burger, the thing that set this one off was their homemade Chipotle Aioli sauce, which the waitress described as a fancy was to say chipotle mayo. It added the perfect spice to the burger that was topped with caramelized onions and pulled together with a mixture of white cheese including my favorite, Swiss Gruyere cheese.
After dinner it was on to our venue for the night, the concert. The arena we went to was nice and clean, and our seats weren't too bad. The opener for Dierks Bently / Miranda Lambert was a guy named Thomas Rhett, which I had never heard of till he sang a few of his songs. But he was very entertaining, and got the crowd in it a little bit. But I think the best part of his performance was the song "1994" that he wrote for Jason Aldene which included the crowd chanting "Joe, Joe, Joe Diffie!" (go to time 1:00 at the link) that was actually stuck in our heads after the concert was over, very catchy.
The main performers did not disappoint, both Dierks and Miranda are both phenomenal artists and have a great way of bringing you into the music.
Male Dating Pro Tip: Do not be afraid to join in on crowd participation parts of songs at concerts, it'll give you guys something to remember and talk about later. Don't worry about looking like a goon! she's on a date with YOU, make sure she likes who she's really with, not who you think she wants to be with.
This concluded the majority of our date, the ride home was interesting since in the middle of the main highway from Baltimore to Washington DC we ended up following cop cars that were driving side by side, then they started slowing down and put their lights on. They eventually came to a complete stop and we sat there for 15 minutes waiting for I don't know what, but our best guess is it was due to road construction. We arrived home safe and ended the date with a kiss. It was a great ending to a great date.
I hope you were able to maybe get some tip, or idea for a date night with your significant other from this post, and if nothing else, maybe it was a bit of entertainment for you!
Till next time, remember whatever you do, add a little bit of geek to it! (in this post, beer geek applies)

